TK (Talitha Koum)

TK (Talitha Koum) is an Ipswich based charity whose mission is to reach out with love, compassion and practical support to vulnerable women. It has two key aspects to its work, it provides supported housing for women recovering from addictions and other life challenges form its purpose-built therapeutic accommodation set on a 2-acre rural site at Witnesham known as The Hope Centre, and it runs Women Together Recovery Support groups. You will be pleased to know this is not an appeal for your funds – but an appeal for your help. A financial services organisation called Movement for Good has £120, 000 to donate to good causes and is inviting you to nominate your favoured charity to receive one of 10 daily £1000 donations during its 12 Days of Giving campaign this December. TK is asking that you go to the Movement for Good web site and register a vote for TK, so that is in with a chance to receive one of the £1000 donations.

150 Club - November Prize Draw

The November prize draw of the parish 150 Club, due to be made Sunday 29th November, will be postponed until after the lockdown on the assumption that it finishes on 2nd December as currently stated by the Government. As things stand, the draw will be made on Sunday 6th December after 10:00 Mass in the Guild Room.

Parish Development Project Appeal

Following the news last week that we have been given planning permission for the construction of the new parish room alongside the church, anybody visiting church will have seen already that things are beginning to happen with the erection of wooden hoardings around the garage to protect the area where works will begin. The vast majority of the funding for this project has been provided by a generous, Gift Aided donation from one of our parish families, but there is a balance which we will need to raise ourselves. There is a letter from Fr Mathew to all parishioners which provides more information about this, but circulating this letter in the current lockdown will be a challenge. You can read the letter here. It has also being sent out to all parishioners for whom we have registered email addresses and hard copies are available in the narthex should you visit church for private prayer.


Next Sunday is the first Sunday of Advent. In the Catholic Church, Advent is a period of preparation extending over the four Sundays before Christmas. The word Advent comes from the Latin verb advenio, "to come towards," and refers to the coming of Christ. The term the coming includes three references: first of all, to our celebration of Christ's birth at Christmas; second, to the coming of Christ in our lives through grace and the Sacrament of Holy Communion; and finally, to his second coming at the end of time. Our preparations, therefore, should have all three comings in mind. We need to prepare our souls to receive Christ worthily.

Parish Development Project

Following the news last week that we have been given planning permission for the construction of the new parish room alongside the church, anybody visiting church will have seen already that things are beginning to happen with the erection of wooden hoardings around the garage to protect the area where works will begin. The vast majority of the funding for this project has been provided by a generous, Gift Aided donation from one of our parish families, but there is a balance which we will need to raise ourselves. There is a letter from Fr Mathew to all parishioners which provides more information about this, but circulating this letter in the current lockdown will be a challenge. The letter can be seen on the parish web site and is being sent out to all parishioners for whom we have registered email addresses. Hard copies will be available in the narthex should you visit church for private prayer.

CAFOD World Gifts

In the run-up to Christmas, CAFOD's World Gifts are still available to provide all your fun and ethical gift needs. What’s more, they've got an exciting new look which they hope you will love! With virtual gifts for as little as £4, you can change the lives of those living in poverty across the world, all from the comfort of your own home. They have added a delivery option to make it even easier to send World Gifts. Choose “Post Direct” when ordering your gift online and they will print your personalised message in your card of choice send it directly to your loved one.
They have some inspiring new gifts to choose from this year - checkout the CAFOD web site here.

Parish Development

Before last Christmas we put up plans in the Guild Room and on the church notice board describing a number of changes which were being considered to improve the front area of the church.
The purpose of our original plan was to provide an accessible toilet and step free area for less able parishioners, and an easier route from the church to a children’s liturgy area. We also wanted to provide a larger area than the current Guild Room for coffee and other social meetings, and a more welcoming weatherproof area for visitors waiting for baptism, funeral and other services.
The Diocese and its architectural advisers did not approve development that substantially changed the frontage of the Church and we were asked to consider development at the side, not the front.
This we have done and the revised plan now shown on the church notice board and below has been developed, and received an encouraging early response from the Diocese.
The plans include construction of a new social space opening onto the rear garden and with accessible toilet facilities, reduction in depth of the stepped area at the front of the church to provide better vehicular access and widening/re-configuring of the current ramp.
The funding for our original proposal was a £100k donation from a parish family. Our architectural/building advisers will be assessing whether or to what extent the revised plan can be delivered for this sum.
Owing to the current restrictions on gatherings we are unable to hold a Parish meeting to discuss the proposals but we would welcome your comments which can either be made via the contact form (please select Finance) or directly to Father Mathew, Chris Croker, Andrew Ford, Linis Dolby or Declan Moore after Mass.

The Revised Plan

The purpose of our original plan and the diocesan response are summarised above. Our revised plans and isometric pictures are shown below.

As we are unable to hold any meetings in the current Coronavirus restrictions, these notes have been written to provide additional information about the nature and benefits of this revised proposal and to explain some of the issues that have been considered in arriving at this proposal.

1. Levels
You cannot but be aware that our Church has many steps, a ramp and some very uneven bits of concrete. This may not be the most exciting topic, but it has been a real problem for our architect, Andy Todd, as he worked to provide improved access for wheelchair users and those of us, old or young, who can struggle with these obstacles.
The church porch is nearly two feet (4 steps) higher than the Guild Room entrance, and there are lots of regulations about slopes, flat areas by doors and paving surfaces which are now mandated for safety reasons (you can be sure that some of our current Church design features would never have got through planning if submitted now.)
So the first thing you may notice is that the new building is half way between the floor level of the Church and that of the presbytery. From the porch, which will be newly paved, there will be a gentle slope down towards the presbytery and then a flat curved path to the entrance of the new room. This eliminates about half the difference in height.
The remaining height difference between the new room and the Guild Room is accommodated outside by a step down in the wall as it curves around and, internally, by two existing steps in the passageway past the presbytery toilets.
So, wheelchair users will be able to move safely from church to the new hall for any social gathering and will have an accessible toilet close by the hall entrance.
Those going out to the children’s liturgy will have a shorter and less precarious route to and from the Church although, sorry, we have not been able to make this a covered weatherproof route.

2 The New Parish Room

The new social area or parish room (yet to be named by Father) is in total about 50 square metres with a much larger ‘free space’ for tables and movement than the Guild Room (which also has to accommodate some office equipment etc.) It will have double doors opening onto the garden which parishioners will be encouraged to use and enjoy. Its size, easy access from the church and garden outlook are expected to make it the most frequently used area for small social gatherings.

The accessible (wheelchair) toilet is near the entrance and there will be a further unisex toilet on the opposite side. There will also be a refreshment preparation area.

The building will have a pitched, tiled roof with a ceiling height of 2.8 metres and light from windows onto the garden will be supplemented with two large roof lights. The two windows on the presbytery side are high level to provide a degree of privacy to that part of the garden.

Many other details will get defined once we have approval and budget estimates. These details include electrics, lighting, flooring, heating etc. The flooring will probably be Karndene - a low maintenance hard wearing surface maybe with a pine floor appearance - and standards of insulation will be excellent.

3 The Porch Area

The main change in this area is removal of the front steps leaving two sets of side steps (as now, but less wide) and gentle slopes both sides leading either to the Parish Room or out to Highfield Road.
Removal of the front steps and replacement with a wall and railings does not detract from the frontage and still leaves a church background for Palm Sunday, Weddings etc. The gains are extra space for vehicle turning and access, and very much safer mingling outside the church entrance without any risk of a backward fall.
The flat concrete porch itself remains unchanged with its Christmas crib annual feature, but the few yards from the shelter of the porch to the parish are uncovered but still a lot easier route than the current stepped route.
The porch area, steps and new slope etc will be newly paved. This will have to meet non-slip standards, and surface texture changes etc for the disabled and those with impaired sight. It will probably be a neutral grey colour but that is to be considered at a later stage. (the existing pavers are not suitable).
You may wonder ‘Why that funny curved bit? That’s a bit tricky to explain, but its all about regulations on slopes and flat areas by doors. There is insufficient length to run a slope down from the porch to the Guild Room entrance so this flat curve gives us what is required for new Parish room entrance to meet regulations and, probably to the delight of the Diocesan architects, moves the new building back and away from the church façade.

4 The Entry Ramp

After talking to funeral directors and some less able parishioners we know that the existing entry ramp is just about OK if the hedge is cut and we do a bit of concrete repair work. But what we want to do, if it’s affordable, is to widen this approach ramp by about a foot and to change its alignment. This is shown in the revised plan.
These changes will clearly separate the pavement pedestrian access off Highfield from a much wider vehicle entrance, offering some access choices for wedding and funeral cars, and making the front area use by Father and his visitors less of a car scratching risk.
With proper rails this will also make it a much easier for the less able to walk up the slope with side by side support.
Aesthetically, it will also provide a coherent new frontage for the church from Presbytery to road.

5 Bits and Pieces

You will realise that the position of the new Parish Room has garage and tree implications.
There is a large cherry tree in the garden whose fruit the birds take well before Father has a chance. No doubt is was lovely when planted but it is now too big for its location both by the church and any new development. It will have to be removed and there are some clay heave implications that will impact on foundation depth.
The garage will also have to go. Obviously the Presbytery still has the other garage and the one by the church has rarely been used in recent years other than for storage. The ‘easy’ answer is to buy a shed that could be placed in the garden (at the end of the other garage) mainly holding garden equipment.
But that’s just money and another view is that you will always fill any storage space that’s available. (Please, before we buy a shed is there anybody out there who has the energy and ebay/gumtree/freecycle experience to sell, give to charity or parishioners or take to the dump all the stuff we have in the hall and garages that has for decades been kept as may be useful one day.)

6 Strategy and Other Comments

We hope and expect that things will return to ‘normal’, whatever that is, but you will wish to know that a number of longer term options have been built into this proposal to ensure that it does not obstruct them. For example:

- Post Covid we hope that the parish hall renters will return and that a profitable community asset can be re-energised. Building the Parish Room is in no way a substitute or replacement for our hall which is totally different in scale. But if at some time in the future the parish and diocese decide to sell the hall and land, then we have designed and placed the new Parish Room so as to enable a bigger or two part hall to be developed alongside the church.

- If, heaven forbid we don’t have a resident priest or community at some stage, then we have designed the new facilities in a way that they don’t intrude with the option of letting the Presbytery. The new room does not intrude into the garden and line of site of any tenants and there is minimum structural interface between the Presbytery and the new build.

- Finally, if you are wondering whether this is a crazy time to be spending money on buildings, just listen to the chancellor who agrees with our donors, that the best possible thing people can do, if they have any money that can be used charitably, is to spend it supporting local labour intensive projects to bring work and dignity to people.

    World Day of the Poor

    The World Day of the Poor is a Roman Catholic observance, celebrated on the 33rd Sunday of Ordinary Time since 2017. It was established by Pope Francis in his Apostolic Letter, Misericordia et Misera, issued on 20 November 2016 to celebrate the end of the Extraordinary Jubilee of Mercy.

    The World Day of the Poor was established with the theme, "Let us love, not with words but with deeds". The theme for the 4th World Day of the Poor, today, is “Stretch forth your hand to the poor”, taken from the book of Sirach. Drawing from this text, Pope Francis observes that “its author presents his advice concerning many concrete situations in life, one of which is poverty. He insists that even amid hardship we must continue to trust in God.” The Pope points out that from these pages we see, “prayer to God and solidarity with the poor and suffering are inseparable. Generosity that supports the weak, consoles the afflicted, relieves suffering and restores dignity to those stripped of it, is a condition for a fully human life,” Pope Francis says. “The power of God’s grace cannot be restrained by the selfish tendency to put ourselves always first.” In his message, the Pope acknowledges that “keeping our gaze fixed on the poor is difficult”, but, he underlines, it is “more necessary than ever if we are to give proper direction to our personal life and the life of society.” The full text of Pope Francis’ message can be found on the parish web site.

    Parish Communications

    During the first lockdown period, an email distribution list was created and regular news updates were sent out to people who had registered their email address with the parish. However, the total number of registered emails was only 89 and as the lockdown showed, when we are not meeting at church, then this is one of a very few ways in which we can keep in touch. Now we are again in the position of not being able to attend church regularly, email updates will again be sent out to those who have registered. If you have the capability to receive emails, you are encouraged to register your address with the parish so that you can be kept updated.

    We have also established a parish WhatsApp group for information sharing and updates. If you would like to join this group, please register your interest and details using the contact form.

    The parish web site will be kept up to date and the Facebook page (@marymagdalens) will be used to provide information and updates.

    If you would like to register your email address, or would like further information on the parish social media platforms, please speak to Fr Mathew or use the contact form to get in touch.

    A Prayer For Those Affected by Covid-19

    God our Father, Creator of the world, almighty and merciful, out of love for us You sent your Son into the world as the doctor of our souls and our bodies. Look upon your children who, in this difficult time of confusion and dismay in many regions of Europe and the world, turn to you seeking strength, salvation and relief. Deliver us from illness and fear, heal our sick, comfort their families, give wisdom to our rulers, energy and reward to our doctors, nurses and volunteers and eternal life to the dead. Do not abandon us in the moment of trial but deliver us from all evil. We ask this of Thee, who with the Son and the Holy Spirit, live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.

    Mary, mother of health and hope, pray for us!